The most exciting thing that happened to me in 2009 was (surprise!) cataract surgery. For the first time since age four, I don't wear glasses. And after further surgery in August, I don't even have to wear them for reading. Know how you imagine everyone is looking at you? I was so sure when I went back to work after the operation that everyone would notice I wasn't wearing glasses, but the only person who did was the janitor at one of the schools I work with.
I had several articles accepted for publication this year: "The Possum That Changed My Life" which was published in the anthology This Path in August and "A Tale of Two Doctors: The Patient's Point of View" which will come out next summer in Survivor's Journal. Also had an essay "Do It Yourself, Mom" place in a contest. The essay can also be seen on http://www.inspirationpeak.com/ at various times.
In 2009 I discovered The Transition Network, a dynamic group of women who meet monthly for conversations about life challenges. I've met so many interesting people through this group and published a piece on their national website about writing an ethical will. We also have a subgroup on death and dying. We call it Death, Dying, and Dessert.
I learned to play bridge (but poorly); my granddaughter turned 11 and sang a song in memory of her grandpa (mentioned in an earlier post), I visited my husband's family and his gravesite. Houston didn't have a hurricane this year, but we did have snow in December. Texas is going to the BCS Championship game; Roger Federer won the French Open (Can you tell I love sports?)
I miss Ralph every day--when I wake up and he's not there, when something goes wrong in the house (Right now a weird noise is coming from the bathroom, and I see a plumber in my future.)
I miss laughing with him, arguing politics (Our votes were always opposite). I miss his cooking, his willingness to listen. Sometimes I even miss his snoring.
But I've been blessed with a wonderful family and good friends, so I'm plugging along and looking forward to 2010.
2 comments:
It is good to hear the hope in your words ... that you are looking forward and taking your love for Ralph with you.
You have accomplished a lot this year and how wonderful to have good eyesight. It's strange isn't it, that with death - a new sight comes, in that you see new things clearly ... and YOU also now literally see things more clearly.
All strength and peace to you for 2010 xx
It's a nice practice to look back at the year and note the accomplishments. It is also bittersweet that Ralph didn't share them with you. I like how the tone of your post is so upbeat! But that you also acknowledge missing Ralph. That is a given but it should be said, not hidden.
I am inspired by you looking forward to the new year and I hope I can try a bit harder to be more positive too.
I found Boo's observation about the clearer eyesight very profound! Wow!
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